CAN I JUST
I’m goiNG TO RANT A BIT feel free to just skip on by
Okay I am pretty anal retentive about scheduling; I like to know how much time I have to do things, when I have to do things, and have a lot of notice. I am not spontaneous at all. I schedule RELAXATION, for fucks sake. Even if I’m doing nothing, I like to know that I will be able to continue doing nothing for x amount of time.
So it really, really beyond bothers me how little Mike seems to care about actually doing things at specific times. He is very play it by ear and that DOES NOT work for me.
Like today when I left the rugby game at around 3, he said he’d stop by after the team thing directly after the game (should last a few hours) and before he went to the drink up. He also said he wouldn’t stay at the drink up long since we have to be at the olympic lifting thing at 10am.
Cue not hearing anything from him at all until 8:30.
Like, dude, I seriously don’t care if you don’t come over. That’s fine, that’s not the issue. We didn’t have serious plans and I can just amuse myself, no big deal. If you want to get way more drunk than planned and just do rugby stuff, that is totally your call. After all, it’s not me who has to be up lifting at 10am hungover.
But just fucking let me know. That’s seriously all I am asking for.
And then when you ask when it’s okay to come over and I say now is fine, or give me an ETA, don’t just say okay, fucking TELL ME WHEN YOU’RE COMING OVER.
Mother of GOD it’s not that hard.